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Rebel Talk: The Last Text Never Sent
This weekend I stood in a quiet room and looked at something that stops every one of us in our tracks — the stillness of death.
A friend of mine passed away in an avalanche in Utah.
We hadn’t seen each other in years. Life does that. People move. Paths separate. Time passes faster than we expect. But back in our twenties we were next-door neighbors, figuring life out one day at a time. Those were the years where you’re half reckless, half ambitious, and fully convinced the road ahead is endless.
We had some great times in those days. The kind of memories that make you laugh instantly when they come back.
Over the years, every so often one of us would send the other a random text.
“Hey man, how you doing?”
Nothing complicated. Just a quick check-in. A reminder that even though life had moved on, the connection was still there.
It had been a few years since the last one.
We were due.
But now that message will never be sent.
Standing at the funeral, seeing someone you once laughed with lying so still, hits differently. It’s a moment that forces perspective in a way nothing else really can.
It strips away the noise.
The deadlines. The emails. The arguments. The small frustrations that fill our days.
None of it matters in that moment.
What matters is that a life was lived.
And that life is now over.
One of my favorite lines from The Shawshank Redemption has always been:
“Get busy living or get busy dying.”
My friend embodied that quote.
He chose a path different from mine. He never married. Never had kids. But he lived hard and free, chasing adventure, pushing limits, living out in the mountains where the air is thin and the world feels bigger.
He got busy living.
And in a strange twist of fate… that same pursuit of life is what ultimately took his.
So standing there this weekend, I found myself wrestling with that quote in a way I never had before.
Did he live too dangerously?
Or did he actually live more life in 46 years than many people do in 80?
I don’t know the answer.
But I know this:
He didn’t sit on the sidelines.
Most people treat life like they have an unlimited supply of time.
We push things off.
Someday I’ll start that business. Someday I’ll take that trip. Someday I’ll fix that relationship. Someday I’ll get in shape. Someday I’ll really start living.
Needed that been a rough 2025 still recovering from everything:(
Christopher Goodling
Ryan I’m sorry for your loss. I know how you feel my Mom passed away 3 days ago. She was a fighter of life in own way. She showed me how to love people, live rightly, and fight back the darkness. I also want you to know that I appreciate relentless rebel. There are so many positive slogans in the RR clothing line that I consider it my Armor. Thank you so for sharing your experience I’m sure it will touch so many like myself . Fight the Darkness. CG.
Needed that been a rough 2025 still recovering from everything:(
Ryan I’m sorry for your loss. I know how you feel my Mom passed away 3 days ago. She was a fighter of life in own way. She showed me how to love people, live rightly, and fight back the darkness. I also want you to know that I appreciate relentless rebel. There are so many positive slogans in the RR clothing line that I consider it my Armor. Thank you so for sharing your experience I’m sure it will touch so many like myself . Fight the Darkness. CG.
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